So last 2 days ago, it was our 12th Year as a dating couple. And also the very last year before we got married.
Downloaded this app to keep track of our special occasions. It's 142 more days to our wedding! So far we had gone down for our gown selection on the 19th of October. I'm so glad I found something I like and definitely no regret picking it! Can't wait to go down for the final fitting this Sunday before our pre-wedding shoot next week :) Dear god, please blessed us with good weather on that day!
4 November 2015
These will taken by ourselves with a DSLR & tripod!
Felt so blessed to have spent 12 wonderful years of my life with this man.
He's the first man I loved and also the last one till my last breath. It's so funny referring him as a "man" coz he used to be a young boy to me haha! We met at the age of 13 and got together at 14. We were both secondary sch friend from the same class.
He's the first man I loved and also the last one till my last breath. It's so funny referring him as a "man" coz he used to be a young boy to me haha! We met at the age of 13 and got together at 14. We were both secondary sch friend from the same class.
Initially I didn't like him AT ALL. It was the class who spread rumours about him liking me!
And the funniest thing is, it was his ex gf (being the mei po) (A) who brought us together.
I remembered during the exam period, A kept calling me to ask me go "steady" with Ming (my now-fiancé). At first, I said No but she kept calling & pestering me till I gave up and said Yes. Haha! Those days just play play, puppy love only.
Talking about how fate brought us together.
And the funniest thing is, it was his ex gf (being the mei po) (A) who brought us together.
I remembered during the exam period, A kept calling me to ask me go "steady" with Ming (my now-fiancé). At first, I said No but she kept calling & pestering me till I gave up and said Yes. Haha! Those days just play play, puppy love only.
Talking about how fate brought us together.
He used to be a fat boy.
Like this one here!
Like this one here!
This was taken when we were in ITE. Eh that's 9 years ago!?!?
Hahahahahha!!!! Seriously wtf!? My ah lian hair. Like time still thought very chio & hip somemore Lol!
When we were 17, we were already in the 3rd year of this relationship.
At first, I wasn't sure if this r/s can work out. It took me almost a year to "like" him back. lol! Throughout our 1st year, I felt comfortable with him and he's really nice to me. I felt secure & protected by him.
He always waits for me to end CCA and ride bicycle send me home though my house is just opp the sch haha!
His house is further down about 20 min away from sch. Imagine him going home and then ride bicycle all the way back to sch to send me home. He had done alot for me.
Finally, my heart moved.
He always waits for me to end CCA and ride bicycle send me home though my house is just opp the sch haha!
His house is further down about 20 min away from sch. Imagine him going home and then ride bicycle all the way back to sch to send me home. He had done alot for me.
Finally, my heart moved.
My parents only found out about him after a year later. They seems neutral about it and told me to invite him home to let them see one day. Waseh! I didn't know my mom was so cool about it. I thought she would asked me to break up with him coz consider she being a traditional woman. Plus I'm only 15 at that time! Only child somemore!
I rmbred there was once my uncle commented that I should find someone better after meeting Ming.. Obviously, they based on Ming's size and being biased.
And Of course I didn't (dare not) tell Ming about it coz I felt that as long as I like him can already. My parents no comment and who are you to comment so much???
But maybe Ming was kinda low esteem at that time. That was when he started exercising and play soccer. And slowly he slim down ALOT. Everyone were shocked when they saw him.
And Of course I didn't (dare not) tell Ming about it coz I felt that as long as I like him can already. My parents no comment and who are you to comment so much???
But maybe Ming was kinda low esteem at that time. That was when he started exercising and play soccer. And slowly he slim down ALOT. Everyone were shocked when they saw him.
He's no longer the big fat boy. I think maybe he felt that he's not compatible with me. Eh last time got boys woo me one okay hahahaha! I think he scare I run away so he changed himself for the better.
Since then, he never looked back and the rest was history.
Since then, he never looked back and the rest was history.
We went to the same ITE. Same sch but diff course. He was so scared I might find another guy and dumped him haha. Silly boy! I wouldn't have been with him for 2 years despite his past size right? Plus I like him becuz it's him and not becuz of the size.
We remains close and try to meet as often as our class schedule allows. Sometimes he waited for me to end sch so that we could take bus home from Tamp to SK.
We remains close and try to meet as often as our class schedule allows. Sometimes he waited for me to end sch so that we could take bus home from Tamp to SK.
After a year, I graduated first and started working while he has another year more in higher nitec.
Everything remains the same. We still texted and chatted every single night without fail.
I don't know how he can take it in the past as I wasn't allow to go out with friends on weekends coz my mom (was stress) wanted me to go church and she doesn't like me going out at all other than with family. So last time, we never meet on weekends at all! Poor him!!
Everything remains the same. We still texted and chatted every single night without fail.
I don't know how he can take it in the past as I wasn't allow to go out with friends on weekends coz my mom (was stress) wanted me to go church and she doesn't like me going out at all other than with family. So last time, we never meet on weekends at all! Poor him!!
His family & friends used to ask him if we're still together. Coz why never see us hanging out on weekends one? He's either with his friends or else stay home. I felt really bad for him. For this, I appreciate his patience, understanding & persevere. I don't know how he can tolerate my mom nuisance and strictness.
I think for other guys, long time run away liao. Even if his b'day falls on a weekends, we can only pre-celebrate in advance on a weekdays. He's perfectly fine with it too
I think for other guys, long time run away liao. Even if his b'day falls on a weekends, we can only pre-celebrate in advance on a weekdays. He's perfectly fine with it too
As soon as he graduated from ITE. He went Poly for 3 years. Our meeting time were even lesser coz I got to work and he has studies. Last time my workplace at Tanjong Pagar and he used to take train from AMK to my workspace and waited for me to end work at 9pm. Everytime waited 3 damn hours without complaining!!
For that moment, and of course still got many other moments la. I knew this man I could marry and I must treat him well too. Lol!
For that moment, and of course still got many other moments la. I knew this man I could marry and I must treat him well too. Lol!
Last time when we were still young and broke, still couldn't afford any luxury stuff. He will still try to save up to buy gifts for me on special occasions. Last time eat at Pizza Hut is a luxurious!!
Every little things, makes us appreciate and cherish each other even more. There's no words that can describe about us. It's hard to explain.
Just mutual trust and all I knew was I was very happy whenever he's around. I knew I had fallen in love with him long time ago before I even realised it.
Every little things, makes us appreciate and cherish each other even more. There's no words that can describe about us. It's hard to explain.
Just mutual trust and all I knew was I was very happy whenever he's around. I knew I had fallen in love with him long time ago before I even realised it.
He knows what I'm thinking, he don't even need to ask. Just like when 1 eye contact, we knew what we're both thinking. Is that telepathy? Haha..
I'm so glad we came a long way.... It's not easy maintaining a long term r/s unless you both give & take and trust is very impt!
I'm so glad we came a long way.... It's not easy maintaining a long term r/s unless you both give & take and trust is very impt!
Until the recent years when he went NS, I told my mom that I would like to spend time with him since he only book out on Friday night. I felt that I am no longer a child and I got the right to decide what I wanted and not controlled by my mom. Can you believe? At the age of 23 then started going out with bf on a Sat?! A proper date is all I asked for.
I wanted to repay what I couldn't do with him as a normal couple. Like catching a movie or impromptu meet up. I wanted to do everything with him!
I wanted to repay what I couldn't do with him as a normal couple. Like catching a movie or impromptu meet up. I wanted to do everything with him!
I'm just glad I've found him. I thank his ex gf for pairing him up with me. The love that no one sees us (not even us) has got so far, has blossomed.
In another 143 days, we will be walking down the aisle, exchanging our vows and becoming Mr & Mrs Sim and moving into our lovenest next year! So happening!! I can't wait man!!! We've always wanted to start a family of ours.
In another 143 days, we will be walking down the aisle, exchanging our vows and becoming Mr & Mrs Sim and moving into our lovenest next year! So happening!! I can't wait man!!! We've always wanted to start a family of ours.
Aiyo.. Talked too much of our past hahahaha.. Back to the anniversary topic...
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Our pre-anniversary celebration at Popeyes.. hahaha!
Wanted to catch a movie but we will tired after we reached home so decided to rest early.
He fell asleep immediately on the bed while I watched my running man. Waiting for the clock to striked 12am so we could wish each other, follow by a SMS wishing message (we did it every year).
I woke him up to wish him when it's 12am and asked him go brush teeth while I quickly placed the ann gift I got for him under the blanket. Haha! I pretended to apply cream while he came in and when he flipped the blanket, he was stunned hahaha!!
He was looking very happy with the gift he had just received.
I wrote him a letter as well :)
Just in time for our pre-shoot :) Definitely will look suave!
After that, go back to sleep haha! Tiring day for us..
The next morning, he woke up early to go buy ingredients coz he said he wanted to make me breakfast 
Sure....
And he came out with this!
So big portion!!! But felt so much love from him Chef ming in the house!
Chef ming in the house!
His homemade hearty breakfast made with love! 
Lots and lots of BACONSSSS.....
Runny poached egg!
He did it all by himself! Next time I can count on him to cook liao haha.. Actually we always cook/bake together. He likes it too. Some sort of bonding.
I offers to wash the dishes but got rejected. He told me not to touch the dirty sank and asked me go sofa sit down relax..
This man is definitely a keeper
As I was busy at work last week, he took the initiative to make plans for the day.
Brought me to Gspa to relax. Includes a 90 min full body massage. At first I was reluctant coz the package was so ex! But since there were 25% promo so we went ahead. He said once in a while it's ok to pamper ourselves.
It was a 3 storey high building. With many facilities. We were impressed! Got gym, jacuzzi & free flow food/drink somemore!!
Brought me to Gspa to relax. Includes a 90 min full body massage. At first I was reluctant coz the package was so ex! But since there were 25% promo so we went ahead. He said once in a while it's ok to pamper ourselves.
It was a 3 storey high building. With many facilities. We were impressed! Got gym, jacuzzi & free flow food/drink somemore!!
Changed into our #ootd while waiting for the staff to bring us to our couple room.
Hahahahaha!! I told him he looked like a zookeeper and asked him where is his tiger? And he pointed at me and said "NEH!"
so rude this guy
so rude this guy
This was after our 90-min massage was like in heaven. So shiokkkkkk we fell asleep 
We ordered some food to share. Today's special is grilled salmon. My fav!
Smoked salmon sandwiches.
The menu even have nasi lemak!!!
We only ordered these 3 dish as we wanna keep our stomach for dinner. We kept ordering the ginger tea & fruit juice.
Did I mention Gspa is open for 24 hrs?? If next time we got no where to go, this will be the place we will be!
They have individual massage seat for you to rest as well!
Next, we went to catch Paranormal Activity! Paid less than $20. Usually we watched it on weekends and can easily costed $25.
This year we decided to eat our heart out so we went Mellben for their crabs!
No better choice than here!!!
While waiting for our crabbbyyyyyy
Even their vegetables tasted so good!
Mantou to dip with the gravy!
My fav place for black pepper crab! The meat were so solid!
And ming's fav butter crab!
Finger lickin good!
No extravagant gift or posh dinner this year but being together is what matters most
